Mars in Libra men chase by orbiting and leave by attrition. They mirror you, keep a silent ledger, wait for you to declare first, then go polite, disappear, and call it incompatibility.
Neptune in the 7th house means you don't fall in love with people. You fall in love with the person they could become if someone just believed in them.
Venus in Taurus women don't stay because they're in love. They stay because leaving feels like setting money on fire, and that is the one thing their body refuses to do.
Lilith in Scorpio is the most obsessive placement in the zodiac, and it isn't close. Here is every Lilith sign ranked from "mildly fixated" to "you should probably warn the next one."
A Moon in Gemini does not fall in love - it gets interested, then mistakes interest for love and talking for being known. The four stages: interview, translation, drift, exit interview.